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Birth:          1073 of Dynevor, Llandyfeisant, Caernarvonshire, Wales
Death:          BEF 1136 

Notes
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nest_ferch_Rhys
Nest ferch Rhys (c. 1085 – before 1136) (popularly called Nesta or "Princess 
Nesta"[1][2]) was the only legitimate daughter of Rhys ap Tewdwr, last king of 
Deheubarth in Wales, by his wife, Gwladys ferch Rhiwallon ap Cynfyn of Powys. Her 
family is of the House of Dinefwr. Nest was the wife of Gerald de Windsor (c. 1075 – 
1135), constable of Windsor Castle in Berkshire, by whom she was the ancestress of 
the FitzGerald dynasty and of the prominent Carew family, of Moulsford in Berkshire, 
Carew Castle in Pembrokeshire (in the Kingdom of Deheubarth) and of Mohuns Ottery 
in Devon (see Baron Carew, Earl of Totnes and Carew baronets).[3]

Nest had two younger brothers, Gruffydd ap Rhys and Hywel, and, possibly, an older 
sister named Marared, as well as several older illegitimate half-brothers and half-
sisters. After their father's death in battle in 1093, "the kingdom of the Britons fell" 
and was overrun by Normans. Nest's younger brother Gruffydd was spirited into Ireland 
for safety; their brother Hywel may have been captured by Arnulf de Montgomery, 
along with their mother, unless, as appears likelier, their mother was captured with 
Nest; their fate is unknown. Two older brothers, illegitimate sons of Rhys, one of them 
named Goronwy, were captured and executed.
First marriage and issue[edit]

After Nest reached puberty, she came to the attention of the youngest son of William 
the Conqueror, Henry I of England, to whom she bore one of his numerous illegitimate 
children, Henry FitzHenry (c. 1103–1158).[4]

Some time after the rebellions of Robert of Normandy and Robert of Belesme, head of 
the powerful Montgomery family of Normandy and England, the king married Nest to 
Gerald FitzWalter of Windsor, Arnulf de Montgomery's former lieutenant and constable 
for Pembroke Castle. In 1102, for siding with the Montgomerys against the king, 
Gerald had been removed from control of Pembroke, and one Saher, a knight loyal to 
Henry, installed in his place. When Saher proved untenable in his new position, the 
king restored Gerald to Pembroke in 1105, along with Nest as his wife.[5] By Gerald, 
Nest is the maternal progenitor of the FitzGerald dynasty, one of the most celebrated 
families of Ireland and Great Britain. They are referred to as Cambro-Normans or 
Hiberno-Normans, and have been peers of Ireland since 1316, when Edward II 
created the earldom of Kildare for John FitzGerald.

Nest bore Gerald at least five children, three sons and two daughters. Through her 
children by Gerald, Nest is an ancestress of the de Bohun Family, the Tudor monarchs 
of England, and, through the Tudors, of the Stuarts, as well as of President John F. 
Kennedy, and Diana, Princess of Wales.
William FitzGerald, Lord of Carew and Emlyn (died c. 1173). By his marriage to Marie, 
a daughter of Arnulf de Montgomery [see Note following Maurice FitzGerald below], 
William was the father of: Odo de Carew
Raymond FitzGerald le Gros
Griffin
Richard
Ralph
William, Justice of Eyre
Robert
Isabella; m. William Hay (Gulielmus de Haia Wallenisis).

Note: William Hay is frequently, and incorrectly, noted as an illegitimate son of Nest; 
the speculation is based on Nest's grandson, Gerald of Wales, naming William as a 
Geraldine, which William Hay was, by his marriage to Nest's granddaughter. William's 
father is erroneously given as one "Hayt", a Flemish sheriff of Pembroke in 1130, by 
which time Nest would probably have been past childbearing age. Most likely William 
was the son of Robert de la Hay, who held Gwynllwg as a fief from Robert fitz Hamo, 
Earl of Gloucester.[6]Maurice FitzGerald, Lord of Lanstephan, Naas and Maynooth, 
(died 1 September 1177). By his marriage to Alice [see Note below], a daughter of 
Arnulf de Montgomery, Maurice was the father of: Gerald FitzMaurice, 1st Lord of 
Offaly
Alexander
William (1st Baron Naas)
Maurice of Kiltrany
Thomas
Robert
Nest

Note: The existence of Marie de Montgomery and Alice de Montgomery, along with 
that of their alleged half-brother Philip, is disputed by Kathleen Thompson, Honorary 
Reader in history from Sheffield University, who claims Arnulf died without issue.David 
FitzGerald, Archdeacon of Cardigan and Bishop of St David's who was the father of: 
Milo FitzBishop of Iverk

Angharad, who married (2) William Fitz Odo de Barry, by whom she was the mother of 
Philip de Barry, founder of Ballybeg Abbey at Buttevant in Ireland
Robert de Barry
Edmond de Barry
Gerald de Barry, (better known as Gerald of Wales or latinised as Giraldus Cambrensis)

Gwladys, mother of Milo de Cogan


Second marriage and issue[edit]

After Gerald's death, Nest's sons married her to Stephen, her husband's constable of 
Cardigan, by whom she had another son, possibly two; the eldest was Robert Fitz-
Stephen (d. 1182), one of the Norman conquerors of Ireland; the second son, if such 
there were, may have been named Hywel. Some sources say that Robert was a 
bastard. This is unlikely to be the case as Robert's heirs were the Carew (Carey) 
family, the representatives of his eldest half-brother, William de Carew. According to 
Rev. Barry, they "...should not have gone to them, but to the Crown, if Robert 
FitzStephen were illegitimate".[7] With Nest's son Maurice FitzGerald, his half-brother, 
Robert laid siege to the town of Wexford in 1169. With Maurice, he was granted joint 
custody of the town.

Rape and abduction[edit]

The details of this most famous episode of Nest's life are obscure and vary, depending 
on who is relating it. Either Nest and Gerald were present at an eisteddfod given, 
during a truce, by Cadwgan ap Bleddyn, prince of Powys; or they were not present, 
and Nest and her husband were "visited" by her second cousin Owain ap Cadwgan, 
one of Cadwgan's sons, or they were not visited by Owain, merely attacked by Owain 
and his men. The usual tale is that Owain hears at the eisteddfod that Gerald is in the 
neighbourhood, that Gerald's wife is very beautiful, and so he goes to visit her "as his 
kinswoman", but this is unlikely. The earliest account, that of Caradoc of Llancarfan, 
relates that "At the instigation of the Devil, he [Owain] was moved by passion and 
love for the woman, and with a small company with him...he made for the castle by 
night." The castle was called Cenarth Bychan (possibly modern Cilgerran Castle); 
Carew Castle is also mentioned, but is unlikely.[8]

Tradition has it that, during Owain's firing of some of the outbuildings, Nest persuaded 
her husband and his men to escape via a lavatory chute, rather than face Owain, 
outnumbered, but this, too, is unlikely. Owain and his men burst into the castle, 
searched frantically for Gerald, but failed to find him. Nest allegedly told them, "He 
whom you seek is not here. He has escaped." An infuriated Owain then raped Nest in 
front of her children — either her two sons and daughter and Gerald's son by a 
concubine; or Gerald's two sons by a concubine and Nest's two sons; or any other 
variant — following which Owain abducted Nest and her children, and took them to a 
hunting lodge by the Eglwyseg Rocks north of the Vale of Llangollen.

The rape of Nest aroused the wrath of the Normans, as well as of the Welsh who had 
been victimised by Owain and his followers. The truce was broken. The Norman lords, 
the Justiciar of Salop, and at least one bishop, bribed Owain's Welsh enemies to 
attack him and his father, which they promptly did. Owain's father tried to persuade 
him to return Nest, but to no avail. According to Caradoc, Nest told Owain, "If you 
would have me stay with you and be faithful to you, then send my children home to 
their father." She secured the return of the children. Owain and his father were driven 
to seek exile in Ireland. Nest was returned to her husband.

In recent years, Nest has been given two specious children by her rapist, Llywelyn 
and Einion. In fact, Owain had a brother, but not a son, named Einion, and Welsh 
genealogies do not name the mother of Owain's son Llywelyn. The omission of the 
name of a mother with the highborn status of Nest is startling, if it were true.

In the 19th century, this "abduction", as well as the fighting which followed, earned 
Nest the nickname "Helen of Wales". She was depicted at having connived with 
Owain at her rape and abduction, given more children than she had borne, along with 
more lovers than she had had.

In 1112, her brother Gruffydd returned from Ireland, spending most of his time with 
Gerald and Nest. When he was denied his inheritance from his father, and accused to 
the king of conspiring against him, he allied with the prince of Gwynedd, and war 
broke out. Owain ap Cadwgan had, by now, been pardoned by the king, and was 
prince of Powys; in 1111, his father had been assassinated by Owain's cousin and 
former comrade-in-arms, Madog ap Rhiryd, whom Owain captured, castrated, and 
blinded. Being then on the king's good side, Owain was ordered to rendezvous with a 
Norman force to proceed against Gruffydd. En route, he and his force chanced to run 
into none other than Gerald FitzWalter. Despite Owain being a royal ally, Gerald chose 
to avenge his wife's rape, and killed Owain.

Some historians have recently cast doubts on the account, suggesting it may have 
been revised or rewritten at a later date, by an author who had a motive to both 
demean Gerald and enhance the reputation of Owain. Thus,"we should hesitate to 
take it at full face value".[9]

Parents
AP TEWDYR Rhys (ABT 1010 - 1093)
VERCH RHIWALLON Gwladus (ABT 1041 - )

Siblings
VERCH RHYS Nest (1073 - BEF 1136)
AP RHYS Gruffudd (ABT 1081 - 1137)

Marriage To DE WINDSOR Gerald Fitz Walter (1070 - 1136)
    m.  

Notes

Parents
DE WINDSOR Walter Fitz Otho (ABT 1037 - AFT 1100)
____ Beatrice (ABT 1041 - )

Children by DE WINDSOR Gerald Fitz Walter 1070 - 1136
FITZ GERALD Maurice (1100 - 1 Sep 1177)
FITZ GERALD William (BEF 1100 - 1173)

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